Welcome to long winding walks through my perspicacious endeavors into the phantasmagorical world of depth psychology and relationships.
Living Jung vs Being Jungian
In “Living Jung vs Being Jungian,” I confront a subtle paradox: to adopt the label of ‘Jungian’ is often to abdicate the lived, visceral plunge into psyche that Jung himself modeled. The essay traces a moment at the gym—an ex’s therapist diagnosing me as her shadow—and moves outward into a sweeping reflection on the history of Jung-inspired psychology: of analysts safe behind desks, of theorists enthralled with metaphor while ignoring the concrete labor of inner transformation. Quoting Jung’s own gratitude, “Thank God I am Carl Jung and not a Jungian,” (Jung, 1977) I argue that his radical invitation was to be the map, not merely read it. To live Jung is to risk the psychological wilds; to be Jungian is to settle for familiar terrain. I’ll use his cartography—but blaze my own trail.
Who am I? The i and the not i
In this mythopoetic meditation on consciousness and individuation, the self emerges from the primordial waters of unity and enters the labyrinth of opposites. Drawing from Jung’s Collected Works (Vol. 8) and von Franz’s Man and His Symbols, the essay explores how the ego constructs identity through separation—how the “I am” becomes the battleground of inner and outer worlds. Through the tension of opposites, the unconscious menagerie awakens, revealing that wholeness is not achieved by perfection, but by reconciliation.
Freud vs Adler: Memorable or Meritorious
Freud, Adler, and Jung emerged from a turbulent age where science, mysticism, and philosophy collided. This essay explores how Freud’s charisma and controversy shaped his legacy, how Adler’s pragmatic humanism contrasted his mentor’s abstractions, and how collective memory canonized Freud as modern psychology’s mythic protagonist. Drawing on Gay, Ellenberger, and Downing, it revisits the cultural crucible that birthed psychoanalysis itself.
The Royal Road: Complex as Corridors
A complex, not dreams Jung refered to as the royal road to the unconscious—nor an illness to be cured but a corridor through which the psyche speaks. In The Royal Road: Complexes as Corridors, Jae Botávn traces how emotional disturbances—those moments when we feel “in the grip” of something larger than ourselves are not intrusions but invitations. Drawing from Jungian psychoanalyst’s Jolande Jacobi and Edward Whitmont, he illuminates the paradox of the complex: it wounds and awakens, binds and liberates. By shifting perspective from pathology to participation, the essay reveals how each complex encases an image—an archetypal center—around which consciousness organizes. To engage it consciously is to walk the royal road toward wholeness, where suffering becomes the psyche’s call to deeper life.
Magick & Jung: A Hidden Tap Root of Depth Psychology
Depth psychology’s lineage extends far beyond Freud’s couch and Jung’s consulting room. Beneath its modern facade lies an older, occult current flowing through the same symbolic riverbeds of alchemy, astrology, and ritual. While Jung conversed with Philemon—the winged sage of his Red Book—Aleister Crowley, his scandalous contemporary, communed with Aiwass, a transpersonal voice of higher consciousness. Both men mapped the psyche through visionary states, each discovering the Self as the axis of transformation: Jung’s individuation mirrored in Crowley’s True Will. Their cosmologies converge in the language of Aeons and Aions—the mythic epochs of evolving consciousness. Recognizing Ceremonial Magick as an overlooked root of depth psychology reveals not divergence but a hidden lineage, uniting psychology and the occult in their shared pursuit of the soul’s alchemical awakening.
The Collective Problem: Death of Symbol & “Loss of Soul”
In an age obsessed with data, diagnoses, and surface-level “self-improvement,” we have forgotten the language of the soul—the symbolic. Drawing on the works of Jung and Whitmont, The Collective’s Essential Problem: On the Death of Symbol and the Loss of Soul explores how modern culture’s fixation on literalism has severed our connection to meaning itself. When the psyche is stripped of its symbolic imagination—the inner capacity to perceive images as living truths—life becomes mechanical, symptoms replace symbols, and anxiety takes the place of mystery. This essay traces how the erosion of the imaginal world produces a collective neurosis: a civilization of surfaces that knows everything yet feels nothing. Reclaiming the symbolic function, as Jung saw it, is not mere nostalgia—it is the renewal of psychic life itself. Without it, humanity risks losing its most vital inheritance: the soul’s capacity to create, suffer, and make meaning.
Breaking the Spell: How Two Women Invented the Love Addiction & Codependency Epidemic
Were Melody Beattie and Pia Mellody psychological innovators or opportunists capitalizing on cultural upheaval? "Codependency" and "love addiction" surged into public consciousness amid the Reagan-era war on drugs, 12-step group proliferation, and societal backlash against 1960s liberation movements. Lacking scientific validation, these concepts were packaged as diseases, funneling millions into treatment centers like The Meadows, despite troubling allegations of exploitation. This post uncovers the profitable yet controversial legacy these women built at the intersection of emotional vulnerability and systemic opportunism.
Exposing the Love Addiction and Codependency Fraud
The addiction treatment industry is at a crossroads, plagued by unethical practices like upcoding and misdiagnoses of love addiction and codependency. These fraudulent methods not only exploit vulnerable patients but also divert critical resources from legitimate care. This scholarly analysis reveals the financial and ethical implications of these practices while advocating for DSM-5 compliance, transparent billing, and rigorous oversight to restore integrity in addiction treatment. Find out how these reforms can rebuild trust and deliver evidence-based solutions for those in need.
Jung’s Map of the Psyche
Dive into Carl Jung’s revolutionary framework of the psyche with this guide to 12 transformative concepts, such as the collective unconscious, archetypes, and individuation. Featuring insights from Murray Stein’s Jung’s Map of the Soul, this article unveils how these ideas can empower your journey toward self-awareness and integration.
Formalae Participation Mystique
I have gotten all I have ever wanted. Magic is real. I loved a girl. Joy, like the dawn, rises from sorrow, while loss is the price of devotion. Through the paradoxes of life—where hate masks love and darkness begets light—we find liberation. Here, shadow is the priest, and cycles are the teachers, showing us that all answers lie within the questions themselves. Step into this poetic riddle and discover that what appears broken often holds the key to wholeness.
What Are the Seven Hermetic Principles and How Can They Unlock Deeper Self-Awareness?
Rooted in the ancient teachings of Hermes Trismegistus, Hermeticism invites us to look beyond simplistic ideas of manifestation and embrace a more holistic understanding of the universe and our role within it. The Kybalion, a text summarizing the Seven Hermetic Principles, provides a universal philosophy that bridges mind and reality, offering a map to navigate life’s complexities. In today’s age of quick-fix solutions and diluted self-help doctrines, Hermeticism presents a powerful alternative—one that emphasizes balance, self-awareness, and a deeper alignment with universal laws. This ancient wisdom serves as a bridge between philosophy and psychology, urging us to see beyond the surface and recognize the vast potential within.
Syzygy Sexualis: We Have It All Wrong
Explore Syzygy Sexualis and the misunderstood power of opposites in relationships. Instead of seeking sameness, the true path to transformation lies in the tension between masculine and feminine energies, revealing the soul’s purpose and leading to a higher union of consciousness. Learn why friction isn’t a flaw but a pathway to transcendent love.
Own Your Darkness: Integration vs. Repression
Many people live secret lives, hiding their inner darkness behind polished exteriors. In this blog, I explore the power of integration versus repression, revealing how embracing your shadow self can lead to true psychological freedom and personal wholeness. Dive into Jungian concepts of light, dark, and the journey to becoming whole.
Women & Desire: The Trap of Wanting to be Wanted
Women’s deep-seated desire to be desired often creates unhealthy relational dynamics that set men up for failure. Drawing on Jungian psychology and Object Relations Theory, this analysis explores how unconscious drives shape the ways women seek validation and how these patterns undermine authentic intimacy, leading to emotional disconnection in relationships. Learn how both partners can achieve mutual growth by breaking free from these psychological traps.
Self: The Journey to Wholeness in a Fragmented World
Exploring the path to individuation and wholeness in a world of contradiction. Learn how Jungian psychology helps navigate the complexities of finding purpose and meaning.
How Feminism Has Become Anti-Feminine
Explore how the psychological phenomena of enantiodromia has manifested in modern feminism’s unconscious shift from its origins, becoming anti-feminine and projecting unresolved psychological wounds onto men and women.
Modern Man & Peter Pan: The Lost Boys.
Botávn explores the Peter Pan syndrome in modern men, analyzing how prolonged adolescence, social media, and avoidance of responsibility shape masculinity in today’s world.
Woman’s Inner Man & The War Within
Discover how Carl Jung’s concepts of anima and animus shape the inner conflict in women. Botávn explores the psychological battle of integrating masculine and feminine energies.
Why Every Man is Named Percival. And Why Women Should Know His Name.
Botávn reveals why every man carries the archetypal name Percival, exploring its deep symbolic meaning in relationships and personal growth. A must-read for men and the women who love them seeking to understand the inner male journey.
Biologically How Do We Misread Our Partners?
Learn how biology influences the way we misread our partners. Botávn uncovers the subconscious triggers behind relationship misunderstandings and how to overcome them.

